Looking for something real...
buckigrl74
Sullivan, Indiana | Kobieta Szukam Mężczyzna
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angielski
Widzę siebie jako osobę
I smile....a lot. I laugh....a lot. Why? Because life is too short not to!!!
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
Znak
Baran
Wygląd & Sytuacja
Mój typ budowy
Przeciętny
Mój wzrost
5' 7 (170 cm)
Moje Oczy Są
Zielony
Moje pochodzenie
kaukaskie
Mój Stan Cywilny to
Rozwiedziony
Mam Dzieci
Tak - W Domu
Chcę Mieć Dzieci
Nie Jestem Pewien
Moje Najlepsze Zalety To
Oczy
Budowa Ciała
Kolczyk w Pępku, Tatuaże Na Całym Ciele, Strategicznie Umieszczone Tatuaże, Widoczne Tatuaże
Moje Włosy Są
Jasny Brąz
Mam Jedną Lub Więcej Z Tych Rzeczy
Pies
Jestem Skłonny Do Przeprowadzki
Tak
Status
Mój Poziom Edukacji To
Dyplom Ukończenia Studiów Licencjackich
Mój Aktualny Stan Zatrudnienia To
Na Poł Etatu
Moja Specjalność To
Inny
Mój Tytuł Zawodowy To
It changes daily LOL
Tyle Zarabiam Rocznie
od $15,000USD do $29,999USD
Mieszkam
Z Dziećmi, Ze Zwierzętami
W Domu
Wszystko Jest w Porządku
Jestem Palaczem
Tak - Próbuję Rzucić
Piję Alkohol
Nie
Osobowość
W Liceum Byłem Uważany Za
Wyrzutek
Moje Zachowanie Społeczne Jest
Żartowniś, Flirciarz, Przyjacielski, Obserwujący, Otwarty, Nieśmiały
Moje Zainteresowania I Hobby To
Sztuka & Rękodzieło, Kamping, Samochody, Gotowanie, Posiłki, Ćwiczenia, Rodzina, Wędkarstwo/Łowiectwo, Gry, Uprawianie Ogrodu, Uczenie Się, Filmy, Muzyka, Fotografia, Gra w Karty, Czytanie, Religia/Duchowość, Sport, Podróże
Mój Pomysł Na Dobrze Spędzony Czas To
Spędzanie Czasu z Przyjaciółmi, Chodzenie Do Kasyna, Pójście Na Koncert, Wyjście Do Muzeum, Zabawa w Przebieranki, Czytanie Książki, Relaks, Przebywanie w Domu, Filmy, Próbowanie Nowych Rzeczy
Idealna Pierwsza Randka To
Lunch and a bike ride? A walk....definitely something where we can actually sit and talk and see if we click. No movies or anything that takes away from getting to know each other better and see if the spark is there.
Zawsze Chciałem Spróbować
Not enough room for my bucket list lol. Hey something to talk about on that first date hmmmm
Moi Znajomi Opisują Mnie Jako Osobę
Przyjacielski, Ktoś Kim Chcieliby Być, Wyluzowany, Ponury, Zabawny
Poglądy
Moja Religia To
chrześcijanin
Uczęszczam w Nabożeństwach
Raz w Tygodniu
Mój Rodzaj Humoru To
Mądry, Oschły/Sarkastyczny, Przyjacielski, Zabawny, Slapstic, Chłop Ze Wsi
Gust, Smak
W Telewizji Zawsze Oglądam
Wiadomości, Dokumentalne, Dramaty, Komedie Sytuacyjne, Filmy, Sport, Talk Show, Powtórki
Jak Idę Do Kina, To z Reguły Oglądam
Akcji, Komediowe, Dramatyczne, Dokumentalne, Rodzina, Animowane, Horrory, Thrillery
Kiedy Słucham Muzyki, Zawsze Słucham
Ambient, Blues, Klasyczna, Muzyka Country, Taneczna, Elektroniczna, Gospel, Industrialna, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Punkowa, Rock, Soul, Odgłosy Odkurzacza
Gdy Czytam Zawsze Sięgam Po
Autobiograficzne, Biograficzne, Klasyczne, Fikcyjne, Historyczne, Horrory, Poczucie Humoru, Tajemnicze, Wiadomości, Filozoficzne, Poezja, Polityczne, Religijne, Sport
Mój Pomysł Na Rozrywkę To
Being outside - love being on the back of a bike, but haven't had that luxury in a long time. I love watching my son play sports, so obviously going to his games. Love dirt track racing, going out to dinner, or even a quiet night at home watching a movie. Cooking a meal together is something I find really romantic. Oh and CAN'T forget fishing, hiking and camping.....if it's nice, I will do whatever I can to be outside!
Szukam
Co Jest Dla Ciebie Atrakcyjne?
Śmiałość, Empatia, Flirciarz, Atrakcyjny Wygląd, Doskonałe Umiejętności, Poczucie Humoru, Inteligencja, Wrażliwość, Spontaniczność, Troskliwość, Dowcipny
Jakiego Szukasz Związku?
Internetowy Znajomy, Przyjaciel, Randka, Oddany, Małżeństwo