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buckigrl74
Sullivan, Indiana | Žena Hledám A Muž
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I smile....a lot. I laugh....a lot. Why? Because life is too short not to!!!
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
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1,7 m
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Zelená
Můj původ je
Běloch/běloška
Můj rodinný stav je
Rozveden/a
Mám děti
Ano - žijí se mnou doma
Chci děti
Nejsem si jist(a)
Mou nejlepší částí je
Oči
Body Art
Piercing v pupíku, Potetovaný/á celá, Strategicky umístěné tetování, Viditelné tetování
Barva mých vlasů
Světle hnědá
Mám jedno nebo více z uvedených
Pes
Ochotný/ochotná se přestěhovat
Ano
Stav
Má úroveň vzdělání je
Vysokoškolský diplom
Můj současný stav zaměstnání je
Na částečný úvazek
Mé zaměření je
Jiné
Název mého zaměstnání je
It changes daily LOL
To si vydělám za rok
$15,000USD až $29,999USD
Žiji
S dětmi, S domácími mazlíčky
Doma
Vše je v klidu
Jsem kuřák
Ano - snažím se přestat
Piji
Ne
Osobnost
Na střední škole jsem byl/a
Vyvrženec
Mé společenské chování je
Komické, Flirtující, Přátelská osoba, Opatrné, Otevřené, Plaché
Mé zájmy a koníčky jsou
Umění a řemesla, Kempování, Auta, Vaření, Stravování, Cvičení, Rodina, Rybaření, Hry, Zahrádkářství, Vzdělávání, Filmy, Hudba, Fotografování, Hraní karet, Rodina, Náboženství / spiritualita, Sportovní, Cestování
Má představa skvěle stráveného času je
Potloukat se s přáteli, Jít do kasina, Jít na koncert, Jít do muzea, Převlékat si šaty, Čtení knihy, Relax, Zůstat doma, Filmy, Vyzkoušet nové věci
Ideální první rande by bylo
Lunch and a bike ride? A walk....definitely something where we can actually sit and talk and see if we click. No movies or anything that takes away from getting to know each other better and see if the spark is there.
Vždy jsem chtěl/a vyzkoušet
Not enough room for my bucket list lol. Hey something to talk about on that first date hmmmm
Moji přátelé mě popisují jako
Přátelská osoba, Někdo, kým by chtěli být, V pohodě, Temný, Potrhlý
Názory
Mé náboženství je
Křesťan
Navštěvuji bohoslužby
Jednou týdně
Můj smysl humoru je
Chytrý, Suchý / sarkastický, Přátelská osoba, Potrhlý, Groteskní, Prostopášná osoba
Chuť
V TV vždy sleduji
Zprávy, Dokumenty, Drama, Situační komedie, Filmy, Sportovní, Reality Show, Reprízy
Když se dívám na filmy, vždy sleduji
Akční, Komedie, Drama, Dokumentární, Rodina, Animované, Horror, Thriller
Když poslouchám hudbu, pak vždy poslouchám
Ambient, Blues, Klasické, Country, Dance, Electronic, Gospel, Industrial, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul, Zvuk vysavače
Když čtu, tak nejraději čtu
Autobiografie, Biografie, Klasické, Fikce, Historie, Horror, Humor, Mysteriózní, Zprávy, Filozofické, Poezie, Politické, Náboženské, Sportovní
Má představa zábavy je
Being outside - love being on the back of a bike, but haven't had that luxury in a long time. I love watching my son play sports, so obviously going to his games. Love dirt track racing, going out to dinner, or even a quiet night at home watching a movie. Cooking a meal together is something I find really romantic. Oh and CAN'T forget fishing, hiking and camping.....if it's nice, I will do whatever I can to be outside!
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Co považuješ za atraktivní?
Troufalost, Empatii, Koketnost, Dobrý vzhled, Skvělé dovednosti, Humor, Inteligenci, Citlivost, Spontánnost, Ohleduplnost, Důvtip
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Internetový kamarád(ka), Přítel, Partner na randění, Odevzdaný/á, Manželství