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buckigrl74
Sullivan, Indiana | Frau Suche eine/n Mann
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Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als
I smile....a lot. I laugh....a lot. Why? Because life is too short not to!!!
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
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Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Durchschnittlich
Meine Größe ist
5' 7 (1.7 m)
Meine Augen sind
Grün
Meine Herkunft ist
Kaukasisch
Mein Familienstand ist
Geschieden
Ich habe Kinder
Ja - Zuhause
Ich möchte Kinder
Nicht sicher
Meine beste Eigenschaft ist
Augen
Körperkunst
Bauchnabelpiercing, Überall tätowiert, Strategisch platzierte Tattoos, Sichtbare Tattoos
Mein Haar ist
Hellbraun
Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere
Hund
Bereit umzuziehen
Ja
Status
Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist
Hochschul-Abschluss
Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist
Teilzeit
Meine Spezialität ist
Andere
Mein Job-Titel ist
It changes daily LOL
Ich verdiene im Jahr so viel
$15,000USD bis $29,999USD
Ich lebe
Mit Kind(ern), Mit Haustier(en)
Zuhause
Alles ist ruhig
Ich bin Raucher
Ja - Versuche aufzuhören
Ich trinke
Nein
Persönlichkeit
In der Hauptschule war ich
Außenseiter
Mein soziales Verhalten ist
Comedian, Flirtwillig, Freundlich, Aufmerksam, Offen, Schüchtern
Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind
Kunst & Handwerk, Camping, Autos, Kochen, Essen gehen, Trainieren, Familie, Fischen / Jagen, Spiele, Gartenarbeit, Lernen, Filme, Musik, Fotografie, Karten spielen, Lesen, Religion/Spiritualität, Sport, Reisen
Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist
Mit Freunden ausgehen, Ins Casino gehen, In ein Konzert gehen, In ein Museum gehen, Sich aufstylen, Ein Buch lesen, Entspannen, Daheim bleiben, Filme, Versuche neue Dinge
Ein ideales erstes Date wäre
Lunch and a bike ride? A walk....definitely something where we can actually sit and talk and see if we click. No movies or anything that takes away from getting to know each other better and see if the spark is there.
Ich wollte immer schon versuchen
Not enough room for my bucket list lol. Hey something to talk about on that first date hmmmm
Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als
Freundlich, Jemand, der sie sein wollen, Cool, Mysteriös, Albern
Ansichten
Meine Religion ist
Christ
Ich besuche Gottesdienste
Einmal pro Woche
Mein Art Humor ist
Clever, Trocken / Sarkastisch, Freundlich, Albern, Witzig, Scharf
Geschmack
Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an
Nachrichten, Dokumentationen, Dramen, Situations-Komödien, Filme, Sport, Reality-Shows, Wiederholungen
Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer
Action, Comedy, Drama, Dokumentation, Familie, Animation, Horror, Thriller
Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer
Stimmungsvoll, Blues, Klassik, Country/Volksmusik/Schlager, Dance, Electronic, Gospel, Industrial, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul, Staubsaugergeräusche
Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer
Auto-Biografie, Biografie, Klassik, Fiction, Geschichte, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Nachrichten, Philosophie, Poesie, Politisch, Religiös, Sport
Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist
Being outside - love being on the back of a bike, but haven't had that luxury in a long time. I love watching my son play sports, so obviously going to his games. Love dirt track racing, going out to dinner, or even a quiet night at home watching a movie. Cooking a meal together is something I find really romantic. Oh and CAN'T forget fishing, hiking and camping.....if it's nice, I will do whatever I can to be outside!
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Was findest du attraktiv?
Kühnheit, Einfühlungsvermögen, Flirtwillig, Gutes Aussehen, Tolle Fähigkeiten, Humor, Intelligenz, Sensibilität, Spontanität, Nachdenklich, Esprit
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