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buckigrl74
Sullivan, Indiana | Mujer Buscando Hombre
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I smile....a lot. I laugh....a lot. Why? Because life is too short not to!!!
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
Signo
Aries
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Normal
Mi altura es
5' 7 (1.7 m)
Mis ojos son
Verdes
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Divorciado
Tengo hijos
Si - En Casa
Quiero tener hijos
No estoy seguro
Mi Mejor característica es
Ojos
Piercings, tatuajes…
Piercing en el ombligo, Tatuado/a por todas partes, Tatuaje estratégicamente situado, Tatuaje visible
Mi pelo es
Marrón Claro
Tengo uno o más de estos
Perro
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
Si
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Unversidad
Mi situación laboral actual es
Tiempo Parcial
Mi especialidad es
Otros
Mi trabajo es como
It changes daily LOL
Mi salario anual es de
$15,000USD a $29,999USD
Vivo en
Con Hijo/s, Con Mascota/s
En casa
Todo tranquilo
Soy Fumador
Si - Intentando dejarlo
Soy Bebedor
No
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Forajido
Socialmente, me describiría como
Cómico, Coqueto/a, Amistoso, Observador, Extrovertido/a, Tímido/a
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Artes y Manualidades, Ir de camping, Coches, Cocinar, Cenar, Hacer ejercicio, Familia, Pesca / Caza, Juegos, Jardineria, Aprender, Películas, Música, Fotografia, Jugar a las cartas, Leer, Religión / Espiritualidad, Deportes, Viajar
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Salir con amigos, Ir al Casino, Ir a un Concierto, Ir a un Museo, Jugar a vestirme elegante, Leer un Libro, Relajarse, Quedarme en casa, Películas, Probar cosas nuevas
Mi primera cita ideal sería
Lunch and a bike ride? A walk....definitely something where we can actually sit and talk and see if we click. No movies or anything that takes away from getting to know each other better and see if the spark is there.
Siempre he querido probar
Not enough room for my bucket list lol. Hey something to talk about on that first date hmmmm
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso, Lo que todo el mundo quiere ser, Genial, Oscuro, Bobo
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
Cristiano
Voy a la iglesia
Una vez a la semana
Mi sentido del humor es
Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Bobo, Payasadas, Obsceno
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Noticias, Documentales, Dramas, Comedias de Situación, Películas, Deportes, Shows de Reality, Reposiciones
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Comedia , Drama , Documentales, Familia, Animación, Horror, Suspense
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Ambiente, Blues, Clásica, Country, Baile, Electrónica, Gospel, Industrial, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul, El ruido de la aspiradora
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Autobiografías, Biografías, Clásicos, Ficción, Historia, Horror, Humor, Misterio, Noticias, Filosofía, Poesía, Política , Religiosos, Deportes
Mi idea de diversión es
Being outside - love being on the back of a bike, but haven't had that luxury in a long time. I love watching my son play sports, so obviously going to his games. Love dirt track racing, going out to dinner, or even a quiet night at home watching a movie. Cooking a meal together is something I find really romantic. Oh and CAN'T forget fishing, hiking and camping.....if it's nice, I will do whatever I can to be outside!
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¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Audacia, Empatía, Coquetería, Buena Imagen, Grandes Habilidades, Humor, Inteligencia, Sensibilidad, Espontaneidad, Detallista, Ingenio
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Amigo/a de Internet, Amigo/a , Cita, Comprometido, Matrimonio