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buckigrl74
Sullivan, Indiana | Kvinde Søger en Mand
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Jeg beskriver mig selv som
I smile....a lot. I laugh....a lot. Why? Because life is too short not to!!!
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
I am a happy person...even when I am having a really bad day, I am able to find something positive in it...no matter how small. I believe that smiles are contagious, and I make it a point to smile at as many people as possible....because you never know what kind of day that person is having - your smile could have just made their day. Even when I am on the phone I try to have a smile on my face....I truly believe you can hear a smile. I don't lie, don't cheat and expect the same in return. My best friend's exact description of me (from a note not too long ago) "you're a sweet, give your shirt off your own back kind of person. There are not many of you out there like that anymore!!!!" I didn't pay her....THIS time :)~
Most of my relationships have been me settling because I didn't want to be alone. I decided last year to focus on only myself and my son...and it made all the difference in the world. I would rather be happy and alone than be in a relationship that is going nowhere. I have learned a lot about myself in the last year, and I know I am worth more than just mediocre. I want the next relationship I am in to be my last...I saw an elderly couple looking at plants when I was walking not long ago. Probably in their seventies, still looking at each other like they fell in love yesterday....THAT is what I am looking for. I love cuddling, holding hands and all that mushy lovey dovey stuff :)
I am a dork...I am willing to admit it. I am sarcastic, silly and will do just about anything to try to embarrass my 13 year old son, and he is very good at returning the favor. Humor is an essential part of who I am....but I do know when it's time to be serious and mature. I am able to balance all of them and I never use humor to hurt.
My ideal match....I am not looking for the perfect guy....just looking for the guy that is perfect for me...Someone that likes to smile and laugh. Someone that loves sports....being a Buckeye fan is a plus lol. I like getting dressed up and going out for a nice dinner, but would rather do something where I am outside...and I don't have any problem getting my hands dirty. Love hiking, fishing, going to stock car races, drag races. When we aren't at baseball, we try to spend as much of our summer at the dirt track as we can. I have a love affair with motorcycles and muscle cars - the louder and faster, the better. I am pretty easy going....as long as it isn't compromising me, my son or my beliefs, I will probably give it a try.
The three things I am most grateful for....,my relationship with God, my son and my sobriety (my son and sobriety being my greatest accomplishments as well). I have been sober for almost 7 years now. and I am not looking to start counting from day one again. I don't ask the people I date to not drink....but if you have to drink every day, or get drunk every time you go out....probably not the one for me. Being a recovering alcoholic is not something I am ashamed of at all. I am proud of myself...it isn't an easy task to accomplish, or admit so publicly. My son....he is my heart, the reason I breath. We have entered teenage angst years, but I only want to send him to military school every other day lol ... kidding...sort of ;) He plays baseball, football and basketball, so I spend a lot of time being his number one fan. I have been blessed with a son who has a heart of gold, even through all the hormonal imbalances lol. As for God....he comes first in my life....no if's, and's or but's about it. I am very grounded in my faith and plan on staying that way. It is a huge part of what makes me the honest, caring, trustworthy, and forgiving person that I am. I am not afraid to be me, I like me..and, except for a few tweaks here and there, I really don't want to change me
PS. I am not looking for a hook up....so if you are, move along.
Underskriv
Vædderen
Udseende & Situation
Min kropstype er
Gennemsnitlig
Min højde er
170 cm
Mine øjne er
Grøn
Min etnicitet er
Kaukasisk
Min civilstand er
Skilt
Jeg har børn
Ja - hjemme
Jeg vil have børn
Ikke sikker
Mit bedste karaktertræk er
Øjne
Kropsudsmykning
Navlering, Blæk over alt, Stategisk placeret tatovering, Synlig tatovering
Mit hår er
Lysebrun
Jeg har en eller flere af disse
Hund
Villig til at flytte
Ja
Status
Mit uddannelsesniveau er
Universitetsuddannet
Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er
Deltid
Mit speciale er
Andet
Min jobtitel er
It changes daily LOL
Jeg tjener så meget på et år
Fra $15.000USD til $29.999USD
Jeg bor
Med børn, Med kæledyr
Hjemme
Alt er roligt
Jeg er ryger
Ja - prøver at stoppe
Jeg drikker
Nej
Personlighed
I gymnasiet var jeg
Udstødt
Min sociale opførsel er
Komisk, Flirtende, Venlig, Observerende, Uadvendt, Genert
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Kunst og håndværk, Camping, Biler, Madlavning, Spise til middag, Motion, Familie, Fisk / jagt, Spil, Havearbejde, Læring, Film, Musik, Fotografering, Kortspil, Læsning, Religion / Spiritualitet, Sport, Rejser
Min idé om at have det sjovt er
Være sammen med venner, Gå på casino, Tage til koncert, Gå på museum, Klæde sig ud, Læse en bog, Afslappende, Være hjemme, I biografen, Prøve noget nyt
En ideel første date ville være
Lunch and a bike ride? A walk....definitely something where we can actually sit and talk and see if we click. No movies or anything that takes away from getting to know each other better and see if the spark is there.
Jeg har altid villet prøve
Not enough room for my bucket list lol. Hey something to talk about on that first date hmmmm
Mine venner beskriver mig som
Venlig, En andre gerne vil være, Cool, Obskur, Fjollet
Synspunkter
Min religion er
Kristen
Jeg deltager i tjenester
En gang om ugen
Min form for humor er
Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig, Fjollet, Slapstick, Fræk
Smag
I tv ser jeg altid
Nyheder, Dokumentarer, Dramaer, Sitcoms, Film, Sport, Reality Shows, Genudsendelser
Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en
Handling, Comedy, Drama, Dokumentar, Familie, Animation, Gys, Thriller
Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til
Ambient, Blues, Klassisk, Land, Dance, Elektronisk, Gospel, Industrial, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul, Støvsugerlyde
Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid
Selvbiografi, Biografi, Klassisk, Fiktion, Historie, Gys, Humor, Mystik, Nyheder, Filosofi, Poesi, Politisk, Religiøs, Sport
Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er
Being outside - love being on the back of a bike, but haven't had that luxury in a long time. I love watching my son play sports, so obviously going to his games. Love dirt track racing, going out to dinner, or even a quiet night at home watching a movie. Cooking a meal together is something I find really romantic. Oh and CAN'T forget fishing, hiking and camping.....if it's nice, I will do whatever I can to be outside!
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Hvad finder du attraktivt?
Skaldethed, Empati, Flirtende, Flot udseende, Dygtighed, Humor, Intelligens, Følsomhed, Spontanitet, Omtanke, Morsom
Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?
Internetven, Ven, Dato, Forpligtet, Giftemål