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This morning, I would like to share some thoughts about how to have a peaceful and happy partnership. With luck, it will take my mind off the fight I?m having with my spouse.
Over the years, I?ve learned one or two things about how to make a relationship go smoothly. After three decades of dating and/or marriage one or two things aren?t bad. What I?ve learned, and you might want to write this down, is this: Relationships are tricky.
The problem in my house this morning was that issue that raises its ugly head in every long-term relationship. One of us left a towel on the bathroom floor.
It is absolutely true that, whatever unhappy thing your partner has said recently about your sister or however much you?ve stewed about the time he/she spends playing golf, your frustration is going to come out over something that: a) is trivial, and b) has nothing to do with what you?re really upset about.
In short, in relationships, the shit hits the fan when the towel hits the floor.
Let?s look at how two people faced with this relationship annoyance might handle the situation. First, the person who is confident in themselves and their place in the partnership. This person sees the towel on the floor, knows it has nothing to do with other relationship issues and says something like, ?Honey, you?ve left a towel on the bathroom floor.?
Notice there are key words this relationship pro does not use. Words like ?again, ? ?never, ? ?always? and ?you stupid twit.? The words ?never? and ?always? have likely caused more relationship trouble than even, ?Everyone gains weight at your age, ? or, ?You said it was healthy to acknowledge our attraction to other people.?
Next, we have the person we?ll refer to as ?the rest of us.? This person uses the most common strategy for dealing with relationship discord. This may be called ?taking it all personally.?
TRoU: I cannot believe you did this to me again. You never, never think of me and always, always leave your towel on the floor. I am so leaving you for someone who showers at the gym.
When it comes to relationships, it?s best to remember two things. First, instead of getting a marriage licence, we should all be issued a learner?s permit.
And the best things in life are free. But they?re never easy.
? Anne Hines is an author and humour writer. She has written three novels and one collection of nonfiction humour.
Over the years, I?ve learned one or two things about how to make a relationship go smoothly. After three decades of dating and/or marriage one or two things aren?t bad. What I?ve learned, and you might want to write this down, is this: Relationships are tricky.
The problem in my house this morning was that issue that raises its ugly head in every long-term relationship. One of us left a towel on the bathroom floor.
It is absolutely true that, whatever unhappy thing your partner has said recently about your sister or however much you?ve stewed about the time he/she spends playing golf, your frustration is going to come out over something that: a) is trivial, and b) has nothing to do with what you?re really upset about.
In short, in relationships, the shit hits the fan when the towel hits the floor.
Let?s look at how two people faced with this relationship annoyance might handle the situation. First, the person who is confident in themselves and their place in the partnership. This person sees the towel on the floor, knows it has nothing to do with other relationship issues and says something like, ?Honey, you?ve left a towel on the bathroom floor.?
Notice there are key words this relationship pro does not use. Words like ?again, ? ?never, ? ?always? and ?you stupid twit.? The words ?never? and ?always? have likely caused more relationship trouble than even, ?Everyone gains weight at your age, ? or, ?You said it was healthy to acknowledge our attraction to other people.?
Next, we have the person we?ll refer to as ?the rest of us.? This person uses the most common strategy for dealing with relationship discord. This may be called ?taking it all personally.?
TRoU: I cannot believe you did this to me again. You never, never think of me and always, always leave your towel on the floor. I am so leaving you for someone who showers at the gym.
When it comes to relationships, it?s best to remember two things. First, instead of getting a marriage licence, we should all be issued a learner?s permit.
And the best things in life are free. But they?re never easy.
? Anne Hines is an author and humour writer. She has written three novels and one collection of nonfiction humour.
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Smal
Min längd är
174 cm
Mina ögon är
Bruna
Min etnicitet är
Asiat
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Aldrig varit gift
Jag har barn
Nej
Jag vill ha barn
Ja
Min bästa kroppsdel är
Anklar
Mitt hår är
Svart
Jag har en eller flera av dessa
Inga husdjur
Villig att flytta
Ja
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Vissa universitetsstudier
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Heltid
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Försäljning / Marknad
Min arbetstitel är
all around worker
Jag tjänar så här mycket per år
Mellan 150 000 och 300 000 kronor
Jag bor
Ensam, Med rumskompisar, Med föräldrar
Hemma
Allt är lugnt
Jag är rökare
Nej
Jag dricker
Ja - feströker
Personlighet
I skolan var jag
Idrottaren
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är
Reserverad, Blyg, Eldstål, Konstig
Mina intressen och hobbies är
Motion, Sport, Nattklubb / Bar, Dansa, Fotografering, Resor, Matlagning, Bilar, Datorer
Att ha kul innebär för mig
Umgås med vänner, Festar, Gå ut och shoppa, Stanna hemma, Prova nya saker, Bio, Tar det lugnt, Sover, Nattklubb / Bar, Att dricka, Extremsport, Läsa en bok, Gå på casino, Leka maskerad, Spela videospel, TV , Gå på konsert, Gå på museum
Mina vänner tycker att jag är
Bråkstake
Åsikter
Min religion är
Spirituell men inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan
Varje dag
Mitt mål i livet är
own a bike and ride this earth
Min humor är
Torr / Sarkastisk, Vänlig
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Nyheter, Dokumentärer, Dokusåpor, Filmer, Sport, Dokusåpor, Repriser
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Jag är filmskådespelare
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på
Country, Latino, Reggae
Det jag tycker är kul är
SEX