Love the Wind in my Hair!
toketeemountain
Bend, Oregon | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I am here to make a few new friends, male or female, to just hang out with and do things with when bored and have nothing more exciting to do.
I was born and raised in Oregon. I've been to several of the states around the nation, and while they all have their own beauty and charm, there is nothing quite like 'home'. I have three children, all grown (minus one... keep reading), and three grandchildren (one biologically). I am in "limbo" at the moment... or you can say, at a crossroads in life and am seeing what direction it will take me.
I'm not wanting a committed relationship at this time. I am dealing with the death of my 19 year old son who was killed in an auto accident last year. I am by no means a nut case, and think I have done very well under the circumstances... I would just like to make sure that when I do get serious with someone again, that I'm doing so with a clear head and not one that is 'lonely' and just filling a hole.I am normally a strong willed, stubborn and very opinionated person. I am not a controller, but do enjoy an environment that has control and is not full of tension and chaos. I enjoy using my head whenever possible (not saying that it always works the best!) I was very much a Tom boy growing up and get along better with males than females. I'm not afraid to bait my own hook, gut my own fish, skin my own rabbits, etc. I don't freak out if I break a nail (for to long), and I don't mind getting dirty when appropriate. I can also be very feminine and can blend in well with the aristocrats and act very much the 'lady'. In other words, I learned how to glean the best of both worlds!
I have no desire to stay permanently away from my children and grandchild... however, I LOVEEEEEE to travel and have done a fair amount. Still, home base is near my family in Central Oregon. I have property there and can go home anytime.
Like so many of you, I've had my failures and nightmare stories of marriages and online dating. If I come across as being "skeptical", I'm sorry (especially in the forums). I certainly do not intend to sound that way. At the same time, try not to read into my words something that isn't there.
Oh yes, I thought I should add that I do have three tattoos. I know some people are turned off by them, so I'm letting you know up front. They are in good taste and in places easily hidden. Heck, I forget I have them! I am no grand prize, nor am I flawless, but for someone out there, with Gods guidance, I will be perfect in their eyes. Should I never find that "person".... that's okay too.
I was born and raised in Oregon. I've been to several of the states around the nation, and while they all have their own beauty and charm, there is nothing quite like 'home'. I have three children, all grown (minus one... keep reading), and three grandchildren (one biologically). I am in "limbo" at the moment... or you can say, at a crossroads in life and am seeing what direction it will take me.
I'm not wanting a committed relationship at this time. I am dealing with the death of my 19 year old son who was killed in an auto accident last year. I am by no means a nut case, and think I have done very well under the circumstances... I would just like to make sure that when I do get serious with someone again, that I'm doing so with a clear head and not one that is 'lonely' and just filling a hole.I am normally a strong willed, stubborn and very opinionated person. I am not a controller, but do enjoy an environment that has control and is not full of tension and chaos. I enjoy using my head whenever possible (not saying that it always works the best!) I was very much a Tom boy growing up and get along better with males than females. I'm not afraid to bait my own hook, gut my own fish, skin my own rabbits, etc. I don't freak out if I break a nail (for to long), and I don't mind getting dirty when appropriate. I can also be very feminine and can blend in well with the aristocrats and act very much the 'lady'. In other words, I learned how to glean the best of both worlds!
I have no desire to stay permanently away from my children and grandchild... however, I LOVEEEEEE to travel and have done a fair amount. Still, home base is near my family in Central Oregon. I have property there and can go home anytime.
Like so many of you, I've had my failures and nightmare stories of marriages and online dating. If I come across as being "skeptical", I'm sorry (especially in the forums). I certainly do not intend to sound that way. At the same time, try not to read into my words something that isn't there.
Oh yes, I thought I should add that I do have three tattoos. I know some people are turned off by them, so I'm letting you know up front. They are in good taste and in places easily hidden. Heck, I forget I have them! I am no grand prize, nor am I flawless, but for someone out there, with Gods guidance, I will be perfect in their eyes. Should I never find that "person".... that's okay too.
Sign
Libra
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 2 (1.57 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Native American
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Scarred, Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Administrative / Management
My Job Title Is
VERY BUSY!
I Make This Much In A Year
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Average Joe
My Social Behavior Is
Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Computers, Cooking, Family, Fishing / Hunting, Internet, Gambling, Games, Learning, Music, Photography, Travel
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Clubbing / Bars, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Casino, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
A cup of coffee or cocktail... that way if you don't click, your not stuck with each other longer than an hour!
I've Always Wanted To Try
Scuba Diving
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Year
My Political Views Are
Democrat
My Goal In Life Is
To be happy.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Dramas, Movies, Re-runs, I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Romance, Family, Animation
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Ambient, Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Gospel, Jazz, Latin, Pop, Rock, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read
Classic, Humor, Poetry, I'm An Author
My Idea Of Fun Is
Whatever makes you smile and laugh
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Empathy, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
Honesty, loyalty, spontaneity, fun loving, cuddler.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date