Hating winter in Missouri
ERRN4life
Columbia, Missouri | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
So, here I go...my big attempt at describing myself to catch your attention (and keep it).
First things first...
I'm not here for a hookup or booty call or to be the one for you to walk on. I'm too old for hookups and I've been walked on enough.
Thankfully, being walked on, lied to, cheated on, and so on (yes, there's more) hasn't made me too bitter and I'm still willing to give love a go. The past is the past. I'm about futures.
I'm not your average woman. I am educated and independent. I work hard and I like to play hard. I bought my first motorcycle in June and had never driven a motorcycle in my life (ridden plenty of times). A month later, I rode 500 miles in the Colorado Rockies, 4000 miles later, I'd say I took to it like a fish in water. Unfortunately, the riding days are most likely over for a couple months at least, but that will just give me time to get to know you before I decide if I want to ride with you when the riding days come around again. I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty but I'm also one to get dressed up for a night on the town too. I am a good person, loyal (almost to a fault sometimes), loving, and caring with a good head on my shoulders. I am sarcastic and often brutally honest but, for those I care about, I am a ride or die kinda gal. I have a good gut instinct and can typically spot a 'player' a mile away. With that being said, I'm not in to games, drama, lies, cheaters or anything of the like. So, if these things are what you're about, stop reading and move on.
I want what most any other person out there wants. To love and be loved. I believe when you find that connection you've been looking for, you'll know. The universe has a funny way of doing that.
I've been divorced for over 15 years, with a couple of long term relationships since then that have failed for a multitude of reasons. Mostly because I will stick things out until the bitter end (that whole ride or die thing again...).
Although my kids are grown and out of the house with their own lives, I still have regular contact with them and they are a huge part of my life. I believe in tough love though and won't co-sign any stupid decisions they make (which aren't many but, they are kids). I expect the person I'm with to do the same with their own children. Although it's not set in stone, I would prefer to date a man who doesn't have children in the home or at least not on a regular basis. I can handle a regular visitation schedule, but I have raised my children. I started young which has its advantages and disadvantages. Call me selfish if you want, but I'm at a point in my life where it's time for me to live after the many sacrifices I made to raise my own children as a single mom.
I have an Old English Bulldog who drools (a lot) that is part of the package and can be pretty high maintenance due to the health issues that come with the breed. He rescued me (it wasn't I who rescued him) and has been glued to my hip since. He's MY 'ride or die' four-legged hero and I'd be lost without him.
I am a very openminded person who doesn't judge others and I expect the same of the person I am with. You must have acceptance/tolerance of different belief systems and cultures that make us all unique. I will not compromise on this. I love learning about new cultures and societal systems.
If you've read this in its entirety, I obviously haven't scared you. I'm essentially an open book, so if you want to know more, feel free to ask!
First things first...
I'm not here for a hookup or booty call or to be the one for you to walk on. I'm too old for hookups and I've been walked on enough.
Thankfully, being walked on, lied to, cheated on, and so on (yes, there's more) hasn't made me too bitter and I'm still willing to give love a go. The past is the past. I'm about futures.
I'm not your average woman. I am educated and independent. I work hard and I like to play hard. I bought my first motorcycle in June and had never driven a motorcycle in my life (ridden plenty of times). A month later, I rode 500 miles in the Colorado Rockies, 4000 miles later, I'd say I took to it like a fish in water. Unfortunately, the riding days are most likely over for a couple months at least, but that will just give me time to get to know you before I decide if I want to ride with you when the riding days come around again. I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty but I'm also one to get dressed up for a night on the town too. I am a good person, loyal (almost to a fault sometimes), loving, and caring with a good head on my shoulders. I am sarcastic and often brutally honest but, for those I care about, I am a ride or die kinda gal. I have a good gut instinct and can typically spot a 'player' a mile away. With that being said, I'm not in to games, drama, lies, cheaters or anything of the like. So, if these things are what you're about, stop reading and move on.
I want what most any other person out there wants. To love and be loved. I believe when you find that connection you've been looking for, you'll know. The universe has a funny way of doing that.
I've been divorced for over 15 years, with a couple of long term relationships since then that have failed for a multitude of reasons. Mostly because I will stick things out until the bitter end (that whole ride or die thing again...).
Although my kids are grown and out of the house with their own lives, I still have regular contact with them and they are a huge part of my life. I believe in tough love though and won't co-sign any stupid decisions they make (which aren't many but, they are kids). I expect the person I'm with to do the same with their own children. Although it's not set in stone, I would prefer to date a man who doesn't have children in the home or at least not on a regular basis. I can handle a regular visitation schedule, but I have raised my children. I started young which has its advantages and disadvantages. Call me selfish if you want, but I'm at a point in my life where it's time for me to live after the many sacrifices I made to raise my own children as a single mom.
I have an Old English Bulldog who drools (a lot) that is part of the package and can be pretty high maintenance due to the health issues that come with the breed. He rescued me (it wasn't I who rescued him) and has been glued to my hip since. He's MY 'ride or die' four-legged hero and I'd be lost without him.
I am a very openminded person who doesn't judge others and I expect the same of the person I am with. You must have acceptance/tolerance of different belief systems and cultures that make us all unique. I will not compromise on this. I love learning about new cultures and societal systems.
If you've read this in its entirety, I obviously haven't scared you. I'm essentially an open book, so if you want to know more, feel free to ask!
Sign
Scorpio
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Butt
Body Art
Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Dark Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These
Dog
Willing To Relocate
No
How I Like To Ride
What are you looking for on the site?
Some Romance
Are you part of a biker club?
No
Is biking a hobby or a way of life?
Its my life
Is your bike your main source of transportation?
No
Do you prefer riding leather or plain clothes?
Plain Clothes
What is your favorite place or road to ride?
Anywhere there's pavement
What kind of motorcycle(s) do you own?
Harley Davidson
Which bikes are on your "wish list"?
Already have it...
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Medical / Health
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Photography, Arts & Crafts, Music, Gardening
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Cool
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Documentaries, Dramas, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Pop, Blues, New age, Soul, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read
Health, Humor, Music, Religious, Supernatural
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Committed, Marriage