Where is my Silver Fox??
DeDeDarlin
Columbia, Illinois | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
First name
DeDe
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Not an upgraded member. if you would like to message me. do so at DeDeDarlin@ aol.com.
I would describe myself as having a hippie soul, a gypsy spirit and a never ending desire to find joy in my life.
Covid update:
During this time of Covid, I am looking for an activity/riding partner. I’m afraid our first kiss will have to wait. lol
Post Covid...
It would be nice to have someone to do things with...Someone that was like minded and fun, a travel buddy, a spiritual buddy, a partner in crime, etc.
I just became the proud owner of a Spyder motorcycle! So, someone that I could take long rides with, maybe cross country!
Someone that I could talk to for hours on end...Someone that time flies with....Ya know? If we fall in love...great! If we don't, that is ok too. I can always use new friends...and riding buddies!!
I am not looking for anyone to make me happy. I am happy. I know that happiness is a choice that we make. No one can make me happy...No one can make me unhappy. Only I can do that. What I am looking for is someone to "share" some happiness with, as well as all other emotions that make up our lives.
I have been told that men do not care for independent women. I have been told that it makes them feel like we do not need them. I sincerely hope that is not true. I think it is an attribute to be independent of each other. Co-dependency is not attractive. Co-nurturing is more my speed. The trick is to remain in need of connection. To remain in a state of desire. A woman is very capable of caring for herself, yet leave room in her life for her emotional Knight in shining armor. Let’s face it. We all need one another. I would not like a world where we didn’t.
Yes, I am 68 years old. I am not only comfortable with my age, I embrace it. I wake every morning with no pain whatsoever. I take no medications. I am very grateful.
I read somewhere once..."I wonder what the definition of beauty would be if, instead of seeing our faces/bodies when we looked upon one another, all we could see was our souls"?
I live alone, but I am not lonely. It took me some time to be able to say that. I have learned that when we go without...we tend to go within...where the truest love of all resides.
I am not religious. I do not adhere to organized religion. Although I do not judge other beliefs, I know that I would not be compatible with someone who is of a religious mindset.
I am, however, extremely spiritual. I am a seeker of spiritual truths and will always speak my own. I strive to reach a level of intimacy, with all of those that I care about, that will include our supporting each other on our individual paths, understanding that all paths lead home. I have been to two spiritual retreats to hear my favorite authors speak. I plan on going to more. My goal is to go to one in Sedona. I have never been there, but hear that it is one of the most spiritual places in the world.
I have a hanging chair in my zen room that I spend hours in reading spiritual authors such as...Neale Donald Walsch / Gary Zukav / Don Miguel Ruiz / Marianne Williamson / Rhonda Byrne / Eckhart Tolle / Deepak Chorpa / James Redfield / Jack Canfield / Timber Hawkeye (Buddhist Boot Camp)....just to name a few.
I do not go out as often as I used to. I guess none of us do at age, but I do love to dance. I do not need a drink to get out on a dance floor...or a partner for that matter. Lol. I love to listen to live music and/or go to concerts. Classic Rock is still the best music....in my humble opinion. I love to be on a beach, in or on the water, or in the woods.
Let me just get it out there....if you smoke cigarettes, vape tobacco, chew tobacco, smoke cigars....we are not going to be a match. (But, 420 friendly)
If you are the conservative type, I may not be the best choice for you....unless you are ready to lighten up a little. Then I may be just what the doctor ordered. Lol. This says I’m Virgo...but I’m not. I’m Sagittarius.
I would describe myself as having a hippie soul, a gypsy spirit and a never ending desire to find joy in my life.
Covid update:
During this time of Covid, I am looking for an activity/riding partner. I’m afraid our first kiss will have to wait. lol
Post Covid...
It would be nice to have someone to do things with...Someone that was like minded and fun, a travel buddy, a spiritual buddy, a partner in crime, etc.
I just became the proud owner of a Spyder motorcycle! So, someone that I could take long rides with, maybe cross country!
Someone that I could talk to for hours on end...Someone that time flies with....Ya know? If we fall in love...great! If we don't, that is ok too. I can always use new friends...and riding buddies!!
I am not looking for anyone to make me happy. I am happy. I know that happiness is a choice that we make. No one can make me happy...No one can make me unhappy. Only I can do that. What I am looking for is someone to "share" some happiness with, as well as all other emotions that make up our lives.
I have been told that men do not care for independent women. I have been told that it makes them feel like we do not need them. I sincerely hope that is not true. I think it is an attribute to be independent of each other. Co-dependency is not attractive. Co-nurturing is more my speed. The trick is to remain in need of connection. To remain in a state of desire. A woman is very capable of caring for herself, yet leave room in her life for her emotional Knight in shining armor. Let’s face it. We all need one another. I would not like a world where we didn’t.
Yes, I am 68 years old. I am not only comfortable with my age, I embrace it. I wake every morning with no pain whatsoever. I take no medications. I am very grateful.
I read somewhere once..."I wonder what the definition of beauty would be if, instead of seeing our faces/bodies when we looked upon one another, all we could see was our souls"?
I live alone, but I am not lonely. It took me some time to be able to say that. I have learned that when we go without...we tend to go within...where the truest love of all resides.
I am not religious. I do not adhere to organized religion. Although I do not judge other beliefs, I know that I would not be compatible with someone who is of a religious mindset.
I am, however, extremely spiritual. I am a seeker of spiritual truths and will always speak my own. I strive to reach a level of intimacy, with all of those that I care about, that will include our supporting each other on our individual paths, understanding that all paths lead home. I have been to two spiritual retreats to hear my favorite authors speak. I plan on going to more. My goal is to go to one in Sedona. I have never been there, but hear that it is one of the most spiritual places in the world.
I have a hanging chair in my zen room that I spend hours in reading spiritual authors such as...Neale Donald Walsch / Gary Zukav / Don Miguel Ruiz / Marianne Williamson / Rhonda Byrne / Eckhart Tolle / Deepak Chorpa / James Redfield / Jack Canfield / Timber Hawkeye (Buddhist Boot Camp)....just to name a few.
I do not go out as often as I used to. I guess none of us do at age, but I do love to dance. I do not need a drink to get out on a dance floor...or a partner for that matter. Lol. I love to listen to live music and/or go to concerts. Classic Rock is still the best music....in my humble opinion. I love to be on a beach, in or on the water, or in the woods.
Let me just get it out there....if you smoke cigarettes, vape tobacco, chew tobacco, smoke cigars....we are not going to be a match. (But, 420 friendly)
If you are the conservative type, I may not be the best choice for you....unless you are ready to lighten up a little. Then I may be just what the doctor ordered. Lol. This says I’m Virgo...but I’m not. I’m Sagittarius.
Sign
Sagittarius
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Slim
My Height Is
5' 6 (1.68 m)
My Eyes Are
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Smile
Body Art
Other, Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Silver
I Have One Or More Of These
Dog
Willing To Relocate
Yes
How I Like To Ride
What are you looking for on the site?
Riding Partners
Are you part of a biker club?
No
Is biking a hobby or a way of life?
Hobby
Is your bike your main source of transportation?
No
Do you prefer riding leather or plain clothes?
Plain Clothes
What is your favorite place or road to ride?
Illinois Back Roads
What's your favorite biker event to attend?
Never have yet due to Covid.
What kind of motorcycle(s) do you own?
2018 CanAm Spyder RT Limited Dark SE6
Which bikes are on your "wish list"?
None
Status
My Education Level Is
High School Diploma
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Senior Assistant
I Live
Alone, With Pet(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Often
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
In these days of Covid, an outdoor venue is a must.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Riding on a train. Parasailing, hot air balloon.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
My Political Views Are
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is
To seek and spread joy
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, New age
When I Read, I Always Read
Philosophy, Religious, Erotica
My Idea Of Fun Is
Riding!!!!
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
Authenticity
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed